A FEW THINGS I DON'T LIKE.

Monday morning again. Here I go again about time flying by. Days slide into days, wrapping themselves together. I am forever getting days mixed up, they all seem so alike. Ask a person who works Monday till Friday, they can sure tell you what day it is. For Monday starts a count down until Friday. The weekend comes, then the count down starts over again. I think I need a job.

I was sitting around yesterday trying to figure out what I might write about today. Several things popped up but I quickly tossed them aside. After I ramble on for several paragraphs, you will wish I had tossed this aide too. But oh well, here goes. I am listing a few things I don't like. I am sure this probably will not be of much interest to anyone but me. But since I am the writer I am jotting these down.

Number one, This of course will not come as a surprise to anyone who knows me or has read a few of my blogs. I don't like prejudice of any kind. I don't understand it, can't work it out in my mind. To choose a group of people, a race, a religious belief or someones sexual preference and direct your hate at them is not understandable. To me it shows a very small ignorrant mind. I did a paper in college for English. I did it on prejudice, a five page essay. I did quite a bit of research. It was mind blowing to read some of the facts of the deeds hate can produce. And it all comes from prejudice from one against another. People can't help if they are born black, or have blond hair and blue eyes. Get over it.

Number two.- I don't like people who say rude and cutting remarks to people, then say, I was only joking." Using the mask of humor to cut someone down. If you don't like someone, want to make fun of them in front of a group of people. Have the moxy to just say it,don't do your dirty work, then call it a joke. That just irritates me to death. Excuse me, you're not funny.

Number three. I don't like violence of any kind. People who use their hands, bodies and minds to be violent to another person is high on my list of meaness. Think of a little child and a large tall adult looms over you, slaps you in the face because you have made them mad. What does the child learn. Oh I know, when you are mad or upset, just hit someone that will make everything better. Men who feel intimidated about some woman and wants to control her. And uses force to try to attain that purpose. Anyone who uses force against another person should be shipped to a island and forced for them all to live together. There they can beat on each other to their hearts content and leave the rest of us alone.

Number four, This one ties in to the one above. People who look around and see a woman who is in a violent relationship and says and this usually is a man that says it, "She must like that rough treatment. Some women do you know." Wake up and get your head out of a paper bag, you're breathing your own stupid fumes. I have heard of this sexual bondage thing. Now there is another thing I do not understand in any way. But believe me that is not what a violent abusive relationship is about. This pal is one sided, when a man beats, punches and sometimes kills the woman to be able to control her. Also he does it because he can. Because we have been a society for years that looked the other way and allowed a woman to be treated as if she was a possession to own and control. Sorry, this is one I should have skipped. Because I feel so strong about this subject. But please believe me, there is no woman alive who wants her eyes blacked, her ribs kicked and calls it fun and pleasurable.

Number five, People who have no time for just a small kindness to others. It takes just a minute to be thoughtful. To smile at someone and be courteous. The whole world is not about just one person, you. I am a strong believer we are all for the most part doing our best. Stumbling through this life, trying to make it through. Then along comes some jerk that treats everyone around them in a selfish, mean spirited way. It leaves a nasty taste in my mouth.

Number six, I am not saying this one shouldn't be number one. Drunk drivers. People who never learn from their past mistakes and just keep drinking and driving around. Playing Russian roulette with others life's.. There are many people who have used bad judgement and made the decision to crawl behind a wheel when they shouldn't have. But they realized the horrible results of what their decision could have cost and they stopped. I have nothing against drinking, just don't bring others into your decision. Drink at home, ride a cab, call someone to pick you up.Nobody wants to take your fun away. Just don't let your fun make someone else, or sometimes a whole family pay with their life. There are many who after several DWI's are still driving, so drunk they can hardly see. To me that is pure selfishness. Thinking only of your ownself and what you want.

Number seven. Relax this I promise will be my last. Men who have children and then gleefully walk away and leave these young mothers with children to support. Then goes out and makes another family. Our society needs to take more notice of our young mothers in their struggle to raise their children. These men walk away without more than a slap on their hands if they are not supporting their children. It makes me mad and truly don't care who knows it. Not all young mothers are lucky as a few that have familes that help them. It is over powering for these young girls trying to raise their kids alone. Its hard for the ones that do have supportive families. Shame, shame on the men who make these babies then walk away. Leaving these children to grow up wondering why they their Dad's didn't love them. Shame. You should be branded with a "Deadbeat Dad sign." So other unsuspecting girls will know the truth about you before they fall for your line.

This has certainly been a ramble today. Now you can see why know one wants to get me started about anything. If anyone reads this it might irritate you but I truly feel better by writing it. So I guess I will let it stand as is. I certainly hope if you have stumbled by that you drop back again. Then maybe nobody will stumble by, so at least I won't have offended anyone. But for today I'm outta here.